Intro
Prive Message (New
Potential Clients) Template
After the Chat
Private Message
FAQs
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Private Message (New Potential Clients)
1 | INTRO
Intro to Private Messaging New Potential Clients 🌻
Mastering This Template
1 | Creates UNLIMITED potential clients (Facebook has over 3 Billion & Instagram has over 2 billion monthly active monthly users).
2 | Allows you to turn brand new potential clients into consults with just a few private messages back and forth.
3 | Means you'll never have to worry about where your next client is going to come from.
You can feel good about using it
If you've received annoying or salesy private messages... It may have come from a poorly crafted template or bot.
This is a more heart-centered approach. It means taking 2-5 minutes to get to know your potential client before messaging them.
This will greatly increase the quality and rate of your responses.
🌱 To get the full system
A | Go to Get Consults System | Step 3 (Path 1: Your Personal Goldmine) ↗️ OR
B | Go to Get Consults System Step 3 (Path 3: New People Online) ↗️ to find new people on Facebook, Instagram, or Linked.
🌱 Concerns About Beginning Chats with New People?
Go to the Get Consults System | FAQ's ↗️
🌷 Prep
Bold Messages take less time and cut right to the chase.
Connection Messages are less salesy, but take more time to cultivate the connection.
1 | Read through their profile & posts for 2-5 min. Proceed if they're a potential client.
2 | Reference a recent post that genuinely intrigued or inspired you. The more genuine the appreciation of their post is, the more likely they'll respond.
2 | PRIVATE MESSAGE (NEW POTENTIAL CLIENTS) TEMPLATE
Stage 1: Open The Conversation
Opening Message
1a | Bold Opening |
Consult Invite 😍
💌 Bold Opening | Consult Invite
Hi _______ (Name)!
I loved what you shared _________ (yesterday)
when you said
_____ (quote or paraphrase).
A little about me... if that's okay...
I have _______(credibility) and I'm looking to support ___(3) ______(people)
who want _____ (result) in ___(30, 60, 90 days) without ____ (what they don't want).
My schedule is pretty full, but I have ___ (3) Free _______ (Name of Consult) sessions available this week!
🌊 I'm curious if anyone comes to mind?
🌱 Positive Response
Skip to 2a, 2b, or 2c ⬇️
🌱 No Response
Go to 1f ⬇️
1b | Bold Opening |
Event Invite 🎤
💌 Bold Opening | Event Invite
Hi ______ (Name)!
I loved what you shared
________ (yesterday)
when you said
______ (quote or paraphrase).
A little about me... if that's okay...
I have _________ (credibility) and I'm looking to support
____ (5) _______ (people)
who want _______ (result) in ___ (30, 60, 90) days without ______(what they don't want).
I am leading an ______(online/in person) workshop this week and I have some free tickets to give out.
🌊 I'm curious if anyone comes to mind?
🌱 Positive Response
🌱 No Response
Go to 1f ⬇️
1c | Warm Opening | Inspired ⚡
💌 Option 1 | Hit Home
Hey _______ (Name)! I really connected with your post ______ (from a few days back) where you talked about your experience with _______ (what they wrote about).
It hit home for me because I’ve been through something similar, and the way you put it into words just clicked.
I’d love to hear more about _______ (specific thing you’re curious about)—what was that like for you?
💌 Option 2 | Spoke to Me
Hi ______ (Name)!
I'm still thinking about that post you made a couple days ago about
________ (post topic).
It really spoke to me—I’ve had my own moments with that too, and your take on it was so refreshing. I'm wondering about
_______ (specific thing you’re curious about)—how did that play out for you?
💌 Option 3 | Been On My Mind
Hey _______ (Name)!
I saw your post from a few days ago about ______(post topic), and it’s been on my mind since.
I’ve been there myself, and the way you described it felt so spot-on. I’m curious—what was going through your head
with ______ (specific thing you’re curious about)?
🌱 When they Respond
Go to 1e ⬇️
🌱 If They Don't Respond
Go to 1f ⬇️
1d | Warm Opening | Struggle 😣
💌 Warm Opening | Struggle
Hi ______ (Name), we haven't officially met yet, but I saw your post about _________ (challenge) and it really hit home for me.
I’ve been in a similar place, and I know how difficult it can be.
I wanted to reach out because I’ve found some things that really helped me navigate it, and I’d love to share if you're open to it.
No pressure at all—just wanted to connect and offer some support. Looking forward to hearing from you.
🌱 When They Respond
Go to 1e ⬇️
🌱 If They Don't Respond
Go to 1f ⬇️
When They Respond (or Don't Respond)
1e | Warm Response 🤗
💌 Warm Opening Response 1
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
It looks like you do ________ (type of work). I love that because ________ (reason). I'd love to hear more about what you do!
💌 Warm Opening Response 2
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
It's so interesting that you said __________!
Because what I do is __________ (Short Code, including credibility).
🌱 No Interest Yet
Go to 2a ⬇️
🌱 They Want Your Support
Go to 2b ⬇️
🌱 Their Friend Needs Your Support
Go to 2c ⬇️
1f | They Didn't Respond 😐
🌻 Mental Prep
Beginning chats with new people means you have unlimited potential clients. And.. you can expect that you won't hear back from many of them. It's not personal... just part of the game.
You can use 2 or 3 of these "No Response" templates at ANY point in the conversation when 2 days pass and you haven't heard back.
💌 No Response 1 | 2 days later
Hey ________ (Name)! Just wanted to make sure you got my message _____ (from 2 days ago)! I hope you're doing really great and I'd love to hear from you!
💌 No Response 2 | 2 days later
________ (Name), I hope everything's okay with you. If you’re super busy, no problem, shoot me a message when you get a moment.
💌 No Response 3 | 2 days later
Hi ________ (Name)! I imagine you're really busy...
One last reach out to see how you're doing... Looking forward to hearing from you!
🌱 Still No Response
Bless them and ask the Universe to bring responsive people who would benefit from working with you.
🌱 When They Respond
Go to 1e ⬅️
Stage 2: Find Out What They’re Looking For
2a | No Interest Yet 🌷
💌 Message | Deep Well of Resources
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
We don't know each other that well, but I just wanted to share that I’ve got a deep well of resources from my ____ (many) years _______ (coaching/in the personal development world).
If you’re ever going through something challenging and could use support, I’m happy to help. Or if I can't help, I can most likely connect you with someone who can.
Do you have any challenges now that you could use some support with?
🌱 They Want Your Support
🌱 Their Friend Needs Support
🌱 No Interest Yet
Go to 3a or 3b ⬇️
2b | They Want Your Support 🙏🏼
💌 Message | Discover More
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
I'd love to hear more about what's going on for you.
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
And how do you want it to be?
🌱 Next Step
Go to 3c ⬇️No Interest Yet
2c | Their Friend Needs Support 😌
💌 Referral Message 1 | Discover More
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
I’m sorry to hear that _____ (their friend) struggled with this. What has it been like for them?
💌 Referral Message 2 | Offer Support
Thank you for sharing this. I would love to support _________ (Referral’s Name).
I can send an email to make it super easy to introduce us. How does that sound?
🌱 Next Step
Go to Get Referrals Template Section 4
Stage 3: Share a Resource
3a | No Interest Yet
(Consult Invite) 😍
💌 Message | Who Do You Know (Consult)
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
As you may know.... I have
____________ (credibility) and I love helping _______ (people)
get _______ (result),
without ______ (the thing they don't want).
I'm curious if you know any
________ (people) who might have ________ (problem) and might be looking to get ________ (result)?
I have __(3) free _____(Name of Consult) sessions available this week!
Does anyone come to mind?
🌱 Showing Interest
Go to 4a ⬇️
🌱 No Interest Yet
No problem! If someone ever comes to mind, let me know... In the meantime, is there anything I can do to support you? I know a lot of people and I love connecting great people!
3b | No Interest Yet
(Event Invite) 🎤
💌 Message | Who Do You Know (Event)
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
As you may know.... I have
__________ (credibility) and I love helping _______ (people)
get _______ (result),
without ______(the thing they don't want).
I'm curious if you know any
_______ (people) who might have _______ (problem) and might be looking to get ________ (result)?
I have ___ (3) Free Tickets I'm giving out to my _____ (Name of Workshop) coming up on ________ (day)!
Does anyone come to mind?
🌱 Showing Interest
Go to 4b ⬇️
🌱 No Interest Yet
No problem! If someone ever comes to mind, let me know... In the meantime, is there anything I can do to support you? I know a lot of people and I love connecting great people!
3c | They Seem Interested 🍀
💌 Message | Offer Support
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
If I had something that could support you with that, would you be interested in hearing about it?
🌱 Go to
Go to 4a or 4b ⬇️
Stage 4: See if You’re a Match
4a | Interested In a Consult 😍
💌 Message | Consult Invite
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
I’d love to offer you a _________ (Consult Name) session.
I charge $___(hourly rate) / hour but I'd love to gift this to you for free.
Because I think I can help you take some big steps toward getting ______ (result)!
Would you be interested in this... and, if we were to do this session together, what would you want to get from it?
🌱 Next Step
Go to 5a ⬇️
4b | Interested In Your Event 🎤
💌 Message | Event Invite
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
|I’d love to invite you to my _________ (Name of Event)!
It's a _______ (1 hour, online event) that I designed to help you take some big steps towards getting ________ (result)!
Would you be interested in this... and, if you were to join us, what would you want to get from it?
Stage 5: Ask For the Next Step
5a | They're Leaning In (Consult Invite) 😍
💌 Invite Message 1 | Book the Session
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
Awesome! I'm excited to see you get _____ (result). Here's the scheduling link to book a session!
If you can't find a time, let me know!
No Scheduling Link?
Great! Would ______ (date/ time) or ______ (date/time) work for you?
💌 Invite Message 2 | Confirm the Session
Awesome! I see that you booked our session! I'm looking forward to helping you get ______ (result)!
On our call, I'd love to hear more about what's going on for you and where you want to be ___ (3) months from now.... Then, I'll help you take some big steps towards getting _____ (result).
And, at the end of our call, we can talk about continuing to work together. No pressure, and I won't even invite you unless I think I can really help. Sound good?
💌 Invite Message 3 | Send the Zoom Link
I'm so glad you're joining me!
Here's my [Zoom Link]
I'll see you on ___/day at _____ (time)!
Super excited to support you!
🌱 Next Step
5b | They're Leaning In (Event Invite) 🎤
💌 Invite Message 1 | Offer Ticket to Your Event
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
Awesome! I believe I can help you get _______ (what they want).
I'd love to offer you a free ticket to this event, because I'm really inspired by you and I'd love to help you get _____ (result)!
It's happening on ___ (day) at ____ (time).
Would you like the link to join us?
💌 Invite Message 2 | Send Link to Event Webpage
Awesome!!! Here's the [Registration Link] to get a free ticket to my ______ (Name of Event)!
I'm excited to help you get ______ (result)!
I'll see you on ___/day at ____ (time)! See you soon!
💌 Invite Message 3 | Send the Zoom Link
Here's the [Zoom Link] for the Event on ___ (day) at ____ (time)!
I recommend arriving 5 minutes early to get settled!
I'm super excited to support you!
🌱 Next Step
3 | AFTER THE CHAT
After They Say "Yes!" to a Consult ❤️
1 | Share your Success
Share Your Success & Learning in Thrive FB Group ↗️
2 | Book them in your Consult Funnel
Book them in your Consult or Event Funnel (or another scheduling software) so they get your automatic reminder emails and/or text.
🌱 No Scheduling Link Yet?
Copy / Paste [Consult Funnel | Show Up Email 1]
and email or text them the Zoom Link.
After They Say "Yes!" to your Event 💃
1 | Share your Success
Share Your Success & Learning in Thrive FB Group ↗️
2 | Opt them into your Event
Enter their name and email into your Event Funnel (or event webpage) so they get your automatic reminder emails and/or text.
🌱 No Event Funnel Yet?
Copy / Paste [Event Funnel | Show Up Email 1]
and email or text them the details including Zoom Link.
4 | PRIVATE MESSAGE FAQs 🌟
⭐ How Do I Personalize this Template (in the Thrive Machine)?
Log into your Thrive Machine Account.
・Click on Thrive Funnels & Templates (in the upper left hand corner)
・Click Mastery | Templates
・Click "Get Consults" Templates (with Assets) 8,0
・Click Private Message (New Potential Clients)
・Click the Blue "Edit" (or "Edit in a New Tab") Button
[Video Walkthrough] How do I go from the Working Draft to the Preview Version? ↗️
[Video Walkthrough] Basic Editing Tools ↗️
⭐ What if They're Upset With You?
💎 Acknowledge & Reflect
🌱 If they're being respectful
My intention is to show up in service.. I'm sorry if that's not coming through. How can I best support here?
🌱 If they're being rude
I apologize if I upset you. I wish you the best of luck.
Optional | Unfriend/block this person.
5 | SELF-RATING TOOL 🤍
Why Did We Create This Self-Rating Tool?
So you can see exactly what it will take to master this template (and track your progress toward mastery).
Be gentle with yourself. Mastery takes time. And love. And tenacity. If your score is low, get support. You will be better able to reach your people when you master this.
How Close Are You to Mastery?
1–3 ⎯ “I’m on My Way”. Get support from Your Thrive Business Coach to raise your score.
4–6 ⎯ Good. Better than 90% of entrepreneurs. Time to use this template with potential clients!
5–7 ⎯ Great! You should see great results when you use this template!
8–10 ⎯ AMAZING! You have attained mastery that will make you magnetic to clients.
Let's Rock This!
Many Thrivers are making 6 and 7-Figures because they had the audacity to use templates before they felt ready.
If you scored 1-3, get support. If you scored 4+, you are ready enough. Start now, and watch yourself soar. You are unstoppable!